Don't.
Ever.
Marry.
Or.
Fall.
For.
A.
JW.
Or ...an EXJW who still believes in it, as they may later return.
You are in for a whole heap of problems if you do.
you see ive started dating this girl and her family is of strong jehova belief.
now i am not i do see certain things in there studie that is true in my opinion but ive never really been a religion type of person.
i think i want to marry her but i am not a jehovas witness and am not looking to be anytime at all she says that is ok and we can still get married but i dont know how its possible or where we would even do it please i need advice
Don't.
Ever.
Marry.
Or.
Fall.
For.
A.
JW.
Or ...an EXJW who still believes in it, as they may later return.
You are in for a whole heap of problems if you do.
so now that most of us have come to a semi truthful understanding that the witnesses are wrong about evolutionist, there is a certain question that i have always had.
now if you were to ask any jw, they'd recite a complete fallacy from scientist regarding this.
but what is you guys input of this.
You would think tree rings would be pretty reliable. But even there, trees can grow more than one ring in the same season depending on conditions.
http://www.talkorigins.org/indexcc/CB/CB501.html
so now that most of us have come to a semi truthful understanding that the witnesses are wrong about evolutionist, there is a certain question that i have always had.
now if you were to ask any jw, they'd recite a complete fallacy from scientist regarding this.
but what is you guys input of this.
i don't know what to do.... i married last year and things have been very rocky.
we dated for 4 years and did have normal issues but always had a lingering doubt something was just not right in our relationship-behavior to be more specific, he is not a jw, but i am.
yes i know i married outside the "lord" but after my first marriage to a jw ended in divorce for physical abuse, i was glad i didn't married another jw.
Gaydar = your own ability (radar) to tell if someone is gay. this doesnt seem to be the problem though.
If he doesnt masturbate and isnt interested in porn then that is possibly an aspergers thing or else he has next to no sex drive.
You had good sex at one time, why? work that out and talk to him about it. If you slapped the brakes on because of guilt, his aspergers may trap him into that mode until you remove it from him again, that may take some time and lots of reassurance that the good times can and should roll again.
i don't know what to do.... i married last year and things have been very rocky.
we dated for 4 years and did have normal issues but always had a lingering doubt something was just not right in our relationship-behavior to be more specific, he is not a jw, but i am.
yes i know i married outside the "lord" but after my first marriage to a jw ended in divorce for physical abuse, i was glad i didn't married another jw.
Is he on medication? That can right royally feck up sex drive depending on what he's on of course.
Has he ever had a sex drive? or is this a constant non thing rather than a temporary glitch?
Some people just have a very low or non existent drive, maybe you skipped having that conversation where you talk about what you want and need in that regard.
If he is physically capable, masturbates, looks at porn (has an interest in sex), but cant or wont get aroused with you, then you have problems. If he likes porn, what type? You dont sound the type to tolerate it btw.
Maybe your gaydar doesnt work? You missed the aspergers after all. (sorry)
i don't know what to do.... i married last year and things have been very rocky.
we dated for 4 years and did have normal issues but always had a lingering doubt something was just not right in our relationship-behavior to be more specific, he is not a jw, but i am.
yes i know i married outside the "lord" but after my first marriage to a jw ended in divorce for physical abuse, i was glad i didn't married another jw.
How did you miss this dating 4 years? Sorry i have to ask....
i cannot use the "quote" feature.. if i click on the quote marks it does the hi-lite of the quote i wish, but i cannot under any circumstances get out of the yellow quote box to create my own post.. i would like to know how other posters are able to do this.
i use both ie and firefox.
the same thing happens in both of them.. also hi-liting no longer works as it used to.
Make extra "enters" or returns so the cursor drops down an extra line or two, then move it back up, then do your quoting, then you are able to move below the quote and continue your post using those extra returns you put in.
it took me a good while to work that out too.
just received this google alert this morning.. http://www.chelmsfordweeklynews.co.uk/news/13800813.plans_for_huge_jehovah_s_witnesses_hq_continue/.
Bummer.
i have a confession to make.
a strange urge is building in my brain... each time i see a jw literature cart on the street it builds.
it is becoming a stronger and stronger thought in my mind.
so a few months ago, a friend sent me an actual copy of finished mystery which was published in 1917 (not a pdf download... the actual book).
i must say, this was the most disturbing book i have ever had the displeasure of reading.
but i only read it because this was the main publication that was being distributed worldwide when jesus supposedly chose the watchtower in 1918 and i basically wanted to see for myself what jesus saw in the wt that would compel him to choose this religious corporation over all other religious denominations.. anyway, if anyone is interested in knowing the actual contents of this book, here are some bullet points i put together from some of the notes i took as i read the book:.